Clothes. So simple, yet so complicated.
I feel fat in that.
That shirt show my mom pooch.
I'm too pasty for that skirt right now.
I don't have anything to wear with that dress.
That material is itchy.
is getting dressed for the day a pain point for you too?
It is for me. I really like clothes & honestly am NOT looking to create a capsule wardrobe.
FYI..Capsule wardrobe is a term coined by Susie Faux, the owner of a London boutique called "Wardrobe" in the 1970s. According to Faux, a capsule wardrobe is a collection of a few essential items of clothing that don't go out of fashion, such as skirts, trousers, and coats, which can then be augmented with seasonal pieces. - Wikipedia
I love clothes, but it seems like I need more of a balance in my life between having the right pieces of clothing that I love & the courage to let go of ones I don't.
What to wear needs to be simpler. I need to look at which pieces would help me to make an easier decision for what to wear that day & take a little stress of the morning routine.
I do literally have a small closet, but I know I have a lot of things in it that I don't wear & that I am holding onto for some reason: usually sentimental, possibly ridden with guilt (aka, I don't like this, but so and so gave it to me so I should keep it).
Deciding what to wear should make me feel good about myself. Half my clothes are aspirational for how I think I should dress and what I think I should fit into, but end up making me feel so bad that I just end up wearing a sweatshirt & leggings instead.
What is in my closet should be helping the people that make it to thrive. I sometimes worry about where things are made. Am I unintentionally supporting a system I don't want to support by wearing certain brands of clothing that are made in unsafe factories or by children?
This week, I'm going to start to unpack our closet and share with you guys how I am going to address these issues that I have with it. And you can join me! WOOT!
Make sure you are on our email list to get our free printable on how to to begin the process of decluttering your closet. I shared some on how to start this process in our community group on facebook.
Here's a basic overview of the process:
how get started on your simplified closet challenge
TAKE EVERYTHING out of your closet & drawers
(you could also do this one section of your closet or one drawer at a time)
sort each piece into the categories below by picking it up & asking yourself...
Does this fit?
Have I worn this in the last 12 months? Will I wear it again?
Do I love this piece or is it serving an important function?
Is it damaged?
KEEP is your yes bin.
SELL (or giveaway) is your "not keeping, but it has some value." For me, if I can sell an item, it leaves a little wiggle room in my budget to find an item I truly love to replace it or can lessen the guilt of getting rid of an item.
PURGE-ATORY is the indecision pile. Set a reminder on your phone to re-evaluate these items in a month. If you have not missed them, give them away or sell them. If they are really sentimental - consider making a SMALL sentimental box to put in storage.
Then step 3, start to put things back. I'll get more into this soon, but I would suggest putting things with like items. (ie all workout clothes go together, all tank tops go together so you can find them easily)
HANGER TRICK: put hangers on backward to use as an evaluation tool to see what you are really wearing. If in a month or two, there are a bunch of things that haven't been turned around, maybe you want to consider purging them as well.
A simple, ethical (with some grace) closet full of clothes you can feel great in is the idea we are developing products around at One Delightful Shop.
We are super excited to share more with you all about that soon! Jump in on our challenge by getting on our email list & printing out the printable that we'll send you soon to get started.
In the email, we'll also give you a way to join in on the closet challenge. If you join in, we'll have a little something special for you during our one delightful shop site relaunch!